Monday, April 6, 2015
Marriage by Fire by Force
An auto mechanic that came to work for me recently was going on and on about how his younger sister has helped the family so much-economically. After a while, he became down cast and I asked what the problem was, he told me that it depresses him that the sister hasn't brought a man to introduce to them-as her own. Imagine the funny mindset, as far as he is concerned…that lady is a nobody, for as long as she hasn't become a MRS. All her hard work and efforts at uplifting the family economically are all a waste…Until she finds some man(even if he is the type that will be hitting her every day) to marry her. It is truly a SORRY mindset.
Our society does not look at an unmarried man as unkindly as it looks at an unmarried lady…most ladies do not have the emotional capacity to withstand this kind of emotional pressure, so they settle for any third leg that breezes into their lives...even the pathetic ones and the number of ‘bad marriages’ remain on the increase!
Whoever has a girl child should teach her to (first and foremost) find her completeness in herself…so that if a complete man comes her way, they will grow together. Otherwise, she is better off-being alone and must NEVER let herself feel sorry for her choices!